The Dependency Question: Using an AI Coach Without Needing It
Dependency on an AI coach shows up in sequence, not frequency. Three tells and a weekly graduation practice — from the people who built one.
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What Your AI Coach Remembers (and What It Forgets)
A chatbot that remembers you is building a file on you. What our coach keeps, what it deliberately forgets, and the questions to ask any AI tool.
What an Audit Log Is (and Why Your Wellness App Should Have One)
“Who read my data?” — an app can only answer that if it built the machinery. An audit log is that machinery: what ours writes down, and its limits.
September 16, 2026
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When the Chatbot Should Say “See a Human”: Where AI Self-Help Ends
The most important feature of an AI wellbeing tool is where it stops. Here's exactly what ours does when things get heavy — and what it doesn't.
Data Portability Is a Feature: Why You Should Be Able to Leave
An app that makes leaving easy is telling you it plans to keep you by being good. Here's how to check before you've given it three years of your life.
August 26, 2026
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Using AI for Reflection Without Outsourcing Your Judgment
AI is good at the part of reflection that was never the hard part. Knowing which part it's doing is what keeps it a tool instead of a replacement.
August 19, 2026
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What “Redaction Before AI” Actually Means: A Plain-Language Tour
Every wellness app now says it redacts your data before AI sees it. Here's what that phrase can mean, and how to tell a real answer from a comforting one.
AI Companions and the Belonging Tier: A Careful Look
Does talking to an AI feed the need to be known — or just the need to be heard? They're different needs, and the distinction decides the whole question.
Why Your Journal Should Never Be Training Data
A journal only works if you'll write what you actually think — and you won't, if part of you suspects the page is feeding someone's model.
August 05, 2026
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Questions to Ask Any Wellness App About Your Data
The app holding your 2 a.m. anxieties is often regulated more like a game than a doctor. Seven questions that sort real privacy from privacy marketing.
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